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No Place For Shitting On Someone’s Work

I’m really impressed at Jason for coming out and saying this, especially because he’s always paid so much attention to building great products and simple interfaces. Seriously…put up or shut up…make something or go home.

Where the heck were you when the fucking page was blank?

The above quote by legendary copywriter, Paul Butterworth, was cited frequently during critique sessions when I was in school. Looking at the end product it’s impossible to know the journey that the designer took, to appreciate what went into it. You don’t know about the constraints, the compromises, or external forces that shaped the design before you. Certainly the end user is not going to be privy to those details either, but as a designer critquing the work of another designer you should know there is more to it. No one is trying to make shitty software. They’re doing the best they can with the constraints they’re given and the talent they have. Not everyone is a maestro. Maybe these folks are just beginners. Is that how we welcome them into the fold? The point is, they’re making something. That’s awesome.

via There is no place for just shitting all over other peoples work – 37signals.

Social Love, from Inspiring People

I’m not sure what this is.

I think I was pondering what became my About page and I realized I wanted someone else to write it.

So I asked them to.

A few months back I sent an email to a group of people I feel lucky to know. People from my past and present who have shaped me. People who inspire me, and people who are my foundation. People who make me laugh, people I’ve worked with…people I’ve dated.

Not everyone I emailed replied, which I expected, because when you read the email I sent them I’d imagine that a few were kind of confused or uncomfortable…

…how often do you ask people what they think of you?

It’s a raw thing to do.

The email:

I thought it’d be fun to set up a piece of my blog to represent the people I really dig, and their thoughts on my projects and writing. It’s narcissism on the surface, for sure, but it’s also my attempt to represent the breath of community I feel when I walk around various cities and spend time on the web. Some of you are bloggers, IRL friends, colleagues, or partners. I sent this to a list of people I respect and really treasure knowing.

Every person on this email is someone I’ve watched do something I’m impressed by.

Feel free to ignore. 🙂


They knew I might post what they sent me, so on some level this stuff is ‘best behavior’ kind of stuff when it comes to Who I Am; I know being a friend, family, colleague or lover to me isn’t always easy.

It’s not easy, actually.

Nevertheless, here it is, and it’s now my About Me Too page.

Below is a sample…check out this for more.

“Oh goodness where do I begin. I guess 21 years ago when I met you. Over the years you’ve been a constant source of love and amusement, a sounding board for my thoughts and questions, a politics/technology/social media bantering partner-in-good-fun and a run-the-streets-get-in-trouble-music-loving partner-in-crime. You are always the first to support and encourage your friends to live their best life and now you are living yours. You are very, very smart. Smarter than I think you let most people know…even me. You are a great dancer…I think one time some peeps mistook us for a professional dance troupe as we grooved our way into 2am. You are brave for so many reasons and I admire you. Our memories run deep and my love for you even deeper. You are my brother and my friend and our spirits will always dance.”

– Chalise, a garden fox and emotional genius, who is a best friend, sounding board, and spiritual sister –

“Dshan, I have so much love for you. You’ve got this ease about you, this way of putting your whole self and heart into the world, digitally and offline. I enjoy your laugh and your warmth. Thank you for sharing it as you do.”

– Gwen Bell – thought leader and author of Digital Warriors, who is in many ways a digital sherpa for me –

“I started reading Derek’s blog before I even really knew what a blog was. Years have gone by, and I still anxiously await each of his posts. His writing style is simple and moving; he writes at the heart of life. One of the sharpest ideafreaks I’ve ever met, Derek is a continual source of inspiration for me.”

– Nicole Antoinette, blogger and owner Shatterboxx Media, who is such a stupidly great writer and thinker that it makes me jealous often – –


There is more. Click here.


Make A Decision To Decide

Working on a web startup teaches you how to live deliberately.

It’s about making decisions quickly and taking action as a default, rather than the other way around.

It’s uncomfortable at first, in that it’s a deliberate way of being and until you live deliberately, you just don’t know what it’s like to do so.

You see the world differently in that you see it as one possibility after another, and you begin to challenge your own assumptions because you’re spending so much of your time trying to challenge the expectations of other people.

When you don’t take anything for granted and you decide to decide, you stop letting fear be an excuse to put the world off.

It doesn’t mean you’re not afraid to be wrong but it does mean you stop being afraid to fail.

Failing is actually something you realize everyone is doing, all the time, in small and big ways…and not only are you not judging them for it but you notice that the happiest people you know fail hard and fail often. The most successful people you know fail hard and fail often.

The people deepest in love fail hard and fail often, together.

When you stop being afraid to fail, and you decide to make deciding and doing your default, you also quickly realize that a lot of people are stuck.

They’re in a relationship they won’t decide about.

They’re in a job or career they won’t decide about.

They’re internally undecided about who they are.

Which becomes who they are.

You need to realize you’ll probably be wrong, but you won’t know until you decide and do. You need to know that waiting isn’t going to change things…and the things that do change while we wait are happening to us.

Letting things happen to you is very different than making thing happen to you. Making things happen to you is…well…

…well, it’s just better.

It makes you confident, and comfortable with a world you can’t predict. It makes it easier to know who you are, and to be who you are.

It becomes easy to talk about who you are, how you’re feeling, and what you’re doing.

It’s hard, too, so I get why so many people can’t break through the skin of their comfort zone to move forward. They can’t get into the habit of making a decision and taking some action, however big or small it may be, knowing that failure and missteps aren’t just unavoidable; they should be sought out.

That those missteps will be exactly what will make them happy or successful in the end.

I’m not on a pedestal.

I get stuck. I catch myself not deciding sometimes.

When I do catch myself though…I decide to decide and to do something.

You should too.

Image mine, bracelet & note courtesy of Emma, @maurer‘s daughter.

The iPhone Is Secretly Tracking My Location? Cool!

There’s a lot of debate right now about the iPhone tracking file that hackers uncovered a day or two ago.

But we should care about the implications of a rich file of geographic data living on our iOS devices offering no customer benefit, creating digital footprints that we can’t erase.

– Why You Should Care About the iPhone Location-Tracking Issue

Apple’s pretty much in the wrong on this one and they’ll find a way to encrypt the file and this will go away, so I’m not too worried about it. I don’t really think it’s worth you being worried about either.

However, the file is actually pretty cool.

The hackers (@aallan & @petewarden) who discovered it wrote a program to show everyone their own data, to solidify the “creep factor for everyone”. Obviously I had to see this…where have I been over the last year or two?

I zoomed in for the image above, showing my adventures around Vancouver.

Below is a wider view…looks like it’s got my SXSW travel and San Diego, which was well over two years ago.  Conspicuously missing is San Francisco and New York, which is puzzling because I was in both cities last year.

It also appears to have me running around the Midwest, which means that data is from my old gig living in Chicago, before I moved to Vancouver. The file is in iTunes, so it’s lasted through three iPhones.

[click on image for bigger view. for bigger view of the top image click here]

I don’t travel enough…all my points are on North America.

I have to say, it’s cool enough for me to want an app to track me without my having to do anything; I can think of a whole bunch of awesome ways to make use of that data usefully (albeit with my permission).  I’m using Daytum to record where I sleep every night (hap tip to Brad Feld)…this could theoretically let me know where I’ve slept for the last three years.

We’re constantly generating information that could be used in cool ways and I know that scares some people, but for me the way tech can sit in the background and provide some modicum of value to us (get out of our way and do cool shit) is what excites me about technology.

So anyway, what’s your map look like?

Why I Dont Like You

That last sentence says it all…I keep meeting food brands who want Facebook fans more than anything else, despite having zero idea as to why.

Its kind of weird, isnt it? You have to “like” a brand to complain about them? Sure, its just nomenclature, but its important to know and understand that the majority of people probably have no idea what it actually means when they “like” a brand on Facebook and what happens after that. This is not some uncommon rarity either. In fact its becoming more and more commonplace, as brands seem to be that much more interested in getting people to like them on Facebook than getting them into their own loyalty program or trying to build a direct relationship with them.

via Why I Dont Like You | Six Pixels of Separation – Marketing and Communications Blog – By Mitch Joel at Twist Image.

Reputation & The Battle For Our Identity

This quote and link is a must-read piece from Twitter’s (and Blogger’s) founder Ev Williams, regarding digital identity.

Online identity is still a messy problem with lots of opportunities. I predict we’ll continue to see further integration of the five pieces by all major players, as well as more attempts to outsource these services across the Internet.

Hopefully we’ll also see more attempts at decentralized services that offer these features, as well.

Will there be a day when there’s one true identity system? While the big guys will keep getting bigger, I don’t think identity will be “owned,” per se—at least not on the open Internet. As we transition to a mobile-dominated Internet (and a more closed one), things are going to play out much differently, however.

via Evan Williams | evhead: Five Easy Pieces of Online Identity.

Identity is something that any technology builder thinks about early in the development of their product, and it’s an element that remains top of mind as that product evolves. Effectively authenticating, representing, and personalizing every user’s experience with your product is fundamental to the role it will play in their lives.

Meanwhile, in a broader sense, identity remains a fertile battleground on the web that will affect the future of your business.

Remember when you saw Facebook Connect pop up everywhere, alongside the now ubiquitous Like buttons?

The traction of the Facebook social graph has been impressive, and regardless of your feelings as to whether it’s a positive or negative development, it’s done a lot to further the conversation about our individual identities on the web. After early privacy missteps you don’t have to look much further than unproven startup Diaspora’s $200,000 heyday to infer that at least some of us find the idea of a centralized identity model concerning. At the time they merely suggested they’d build an open identity solution that wasn’t Facebook.

Facebook is by no means the only authentication solution available, and the identity landscape continues to develop. Williams breaks that landscape into five distinct areas…all of which, he points out, are currently and will continue to be hotly contested. Authentication, representation, communication, personalization, and reputation; important elements of ‘who we are’ offline and thus integral to our online and mobile experience as it matures.

At Foodtree, we’ve been thinking quite a bit about representation, personalization, and reputation lately. After a very thought provoking conversation with Tom Williams just over a week ago about that last one, I found this comment from Ev particularly poignent:

Though talked about a lot, reputation is probably the least developed of these five pieces in the online world. In the offline world, though, it’s built into all our interactions and choices. To me, this suggests it will get more important online when we figure out how to do it right. Ebay is the classic example of making reputation a large part of identity. Many other services have an internal reputation score of some sort, usually as a way of combating spam and other abuse.

via same.

As my comment yesterday on a great Techcrunch article from LiveFyre‘s founder Jordan Kretchmer made clear, I think that reputation is the next frontier of our digital presence.

What we know and care about is fundamental to who we are; our relationships, happiness, and self-worth. Who we’ve made ourselves into, and who we want to be, is what drives our decisions every day.

What this means is that niche communities and conversations will always have a place in our digital identities, and will continue to help us define who we are to ourselves and to other people. Today the web does a mediocre (at best) job of “floating” expertise and passion across applications and platforms; your reputation in a niche community rarely carries any true weight outside of it. Maybe you religiously comment on the New York Time’s website. Maybe you’re a respected member of the Reddit community. Unfortunately Facebook, Twitter, Google, and nearly every other platform doesn’t really care (unless they want to sell you something, in which case they use that insight for themselves).

This isn’t about empowering self-importance, either. This is about current solutions missing key elements of our daily experience. It’s likely that among your closest friends, each person has their ‘thing‘. My friends wouldn’t ask me about the upcoming baseball season. I don’t ask them where to find free music online.

All in all, as technology matures and becomes better at letting us immerse ourselves in its benefits, I think we’ll increasingly demand that it leverage insights as to who we are and why we matter.

Personalization has become a hotbed of innovation, especially in the mobile space. Reputation on the other hand is lagging, and that’s likely the case because it’s the most complicated of the five elements. At Foodtree, as we work with our community to deposit and share deeper insight into our complex food system, we think it’s important that contributors are ‘acknowledged’ wherever they go online…not just within our community. After all, they’re working for the greater good, and deserve that recognition.

I think reputation (and of course personalization) will play a major role in true value creation, delight, and ubiquity for tomorrow’s technologies. It is those three things which embody the inherent potential of technology for human beings.

Don’t believe me?

Answer me this: As it relates to your daily happiness, how important is your Picture ID, business card, or phone number?

Now, how about the fact that your barista has your single origin drip coffee ready each morning when you walk in to the cafe, and regularly asks you for tips on the great music you’ve been listening to?

How to be Successful like James Franco by @evbogue

You’re immersed in your life whether you like it or not.

You can’t just be an actor anymore, or a blogger for that matter. You have to be your life, and your life needs to broadcast across all mediums. We’re living in the age of immersion. We’re all performance artists to some extent, performing our lives for the world. Do you want to act in a movie, direct a movie, write a book, write a movie, and get four graduate degrees all at the same time? Well, that’s what it takes to be successful now. You better hire someone to feed you while you’re doing all of that.

via » How to be Successful like James Franco.

My Position On MySpace About To Come True

I’ve been saying for longer than I can remember that MySpace was a few things.

First, it’s been the ugliest atrocity of UI on the internet for years, especially before they re-designed it back in July.

Secondly, and more importantly, it is the home of music online. On one hand, I’ve said that was a massive opportunity for competitors…millions of bands looking to promote themselves and gather fan bases were left with a god-awful solution that was hard to customize, leaving plenty of room for an elegant competitor devoted entirely to bands. These upstarts have reared their heads lately, and kick MySpace’s ass in nearly every way except for the 70 million people who visit MySpace every month and the network’s dominance of search results.

On the other hand, I’ve argued forever that MySpace should devote itself entirely to music, and should win that space like no technology or community ever has. Let Facebook have our social lives and focus on music. Revamp the entire platform with the lessons these younger, nimble startups in the music space have taught you and become the primary distribution platform for the world’s music.

I told all of this personally, mind you, to more than one MySpace executive.

If these rumors are true I’d be really, really nervous as a music startup.  Aside from the fact that it couldn’t hurt for the new MySpace to make some strategic acquisitions to get their interface right and to extend their reach into indie/pre release markets, a few right moves by a company like MySpace intently focused on music could make it very, very hard to compete.

It started off as a social network — the most popular in the U.S. until Facebook eclipsed it — and then started moving more into the entertainment realm, encompassing everything from television to music to film. Still, what MySpace has always done best has been music.

Search for a band. Any band. What comes up near the top of the search results? Its MySpace page. Despite all the other features and integrations that MySpace has added in the past few years, musicians seem to be the site’s most loyal members.

Consequently, many band folks have been wondering where to go when the music’s over. Facebook has been the obvious destination post-exodus, with services like FanBridge, RootMusic and Songkick helping artists plug into the social media site to reach fans.

Still, since Facebook lacks any native tools for artists (players, etc.), the move isn’t exactly a smooth one; MySpace is still the easiest solution. Furthermore, since Facebook is a massive social network, it’s not as if bands are getting the curated exposure they need to get ahead — unless they’re Jay-Z and Kanye.

Which is why a Vevo/MySpace merger would be so effective.

via Why Vevo Acquiring MySpace Could Be a Very Good Move.

The Future of Books

McSweeney’s takes on books for the next 70 years. Love the snark.

Perfectly reproduced will be the sensation of turning the pages, the crack of the spine, and even the occasional paper cut. By 2052, 95% of the activity of 73% of role-players will take place in these hideaways, since they’ll be the only place to escape the incessant building of community and connectivity that will by then be such an infuriating aspect of offline reality.

via McSweeney’s Internet Tendency: The Future of Books.

I Wish I Could Write

You wish you could write, sometimes.

Wish you could communicate what’s happening with you, how it’s happening, what it feels like while it’s happening.

But you’re kind of always doing something other than stopping to think about what is happening, how it’s happening, or what it feels like.

Working online steals you away from the greatest kinds of writing. You’re plopped into a rush of ideas and innovations that both distract and delight.

Oh, and by the way, the fact that your lofty view of Vancouver’s West End at the privilege of a ninth floor perch is evidence that a lot of people have their lights and tvs on at 1am every night doesn’t fully justify a 20 hour workday, again. Sometimes you have a to shut down the laptop and pick up a book and read something that someone wrote the old way.

Something deliberate…something that created a movement or an idea or a contribution to the world that meant something.

Because that’s all your work is.

It’s a piece of work to offer the world that you think might make a ripple on the sea of wonderful contributions to the betterments of the human experience that have happened in recent history.

Our best writers, ever, by the way, have painted us a picture of that human experience, and that…that is as righteous and innovative and meaningful (and in not enough cases financially rewarding) as the technologies you see such beauty in.

Shut down the laptop. Pick up a book.

And then read something that Hunter S. Thompson wrote, or Dave Eggers wrote, or fuck…blow your mind…pick up Harlan Ellison. Chew on that for a while.

Realize your vocabulary is like a runway model: starved and deceptively shiny.

Read their stuff, and then remember why you love the online writers you love, why you admire them so much. Why you almost can’t blog half the time because you keep reading their shit.

Then put those next thoughts out of your head.

That thought

that paralyzes you with the realization that Harlan’s Shatterday pierced the air you were breathing and country line-danced around the mindset you thought you were in. Turn off the nightlamp and ignore that thought.

That thought

that the bloggers you read for inspiration, the handful of them, just published such…such…such gorgeous red roses that the bouquet is full and you’re toting around daisies. And the daisies you’re carrying are the beat up daisies that 6 year old girls rip up from the muni soccer pitch during a game. The kind of daisies that distraught, overly competitive fathers watch occupy the attention of their daughters as she sits down while the ball rolls by because ballet is way more fun.

Put those thoughts out of your head.

Because if you don’t…if you can’t push those thoughts off the edge of a skyscraper while they tell you about their kids…

…you’ll end up just wishing you could write.

And wishing you could write is a really tough place to write from…